Parenting & Children's Matters
Family Law
Key Takeaway
Parenting matters are often the most sensitive aspect of family law, as they involve decisions about where children will live, how much time they will spend with each parent, and how parental responsibility will be shared.
Parenting matters are often the most sensitive aspect of family law, as they involve decisions about where children will live, how much time they will spend with each parent, and how parental responsibility will be shared. Under the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth), the paramount consideration in any parenting decision is the best interests of the child. The Act sets out a presumption that equal shared parental responsibility is in the best interests of the child, meaning both parents should have an equal role in making major long-term decisions about the child's welfare, including decisions about education, health care, and religious upbringing. However, this presumption does not apply if there are reasonable grounds to believe that a parent has engaged in abuse of the child or family violence. For parents in Queensland, parenting arrangements can be formalised through consent orders filed with the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia or through a less formal parenting plan that records the agreement reached between the parties.
When making parenting orders, the court considers a range of factors to determine what arrangement will best promote the child's welfare. These factors include the benefit to the child of having a meaningful relationship with both parents, the need to protect the child from physical or psychological harm, the child's own views (taking into account their age and maturity), the nature of the child's relationship with each parent and other significant persons, the willingness of each parent to support the child's relationship with the other parent, the practical difficulty and expense of the child spending time with a parent, the capacity of each parent to provide for the child's needs, the child's maturity and circumstances, and any family violence involving the child or a family member. The court can order equal time (a 50/50 arrangement) or substantial and significant time, which includes weekends, holidays, and other time that allows the parent to be involved in the child's daily routine. In Queensland, the court also considers the impact of distance if parents live in different regions, such as Brisbane, the Gold Coast, or regional areas like Cairns or Mount Isa.
Best Interests of the Child — The Primary Consideration
The best interests of the child is the central principle that guides all parenting decisions under the Family Law Act 1975. The Act provides a list of factors that the court must consider when determining what is in the child's best interests. These are divided into primary considerations and additional considerations. The primary considerations are the benefit of the child having a meaningful relationship with both parents and the need to protect the child from physical or psychological harm, from being subjected to or exposed to abuse, neglect, or family violence. Where these considerations conflict, the need to protect the child takes precedence. Additional considerations include the child's views, the nature of the child's relationship with each parent, the willingness of each parent to facilitate a relationship with the other parent, the practical difficulty and expense of the child spending time with a parent, the capacity of each parent to provide for the child's emotional and intellectual needs, the child's maturity, and any family violence orders that are in place. In Queensland, the court may also appoint an independent children's lawyer to represent the child's interests in contested proceedings.
Consent Orders and Parenting Plans
Consent orders and parenting plans are two ways to formalise parenting arrangements without the need for a contested court hearing. Consent orders are orders made by the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia that reflect an agreement reached by both parents. They are legally binding and enforceable, meaning that if one parent does not comply with the orders, the other parent can seek enforcement through the court. Consent orders can cover where the child lives, the time the child spends with each parent, how parental responsibility is shared, and other aspects of the child's care. Parenting plans are less formal agreements that are not filed with the court and are not legally binding. However, if a parenting plan is registered and the court makes consent orders that reflect the plan, the plan effectively becomes enforceable. Parenting plans are often used when parents want flexibility to adjust arrangements as the child grows and circumstances change. Both consent orders and parenting plans can address practical matters such as school holidays, birthday arrangements, extracurricular activities, and communication methods, including telephone and video calls for long-distance parenting arrangements.
Equal Time vs Substantial and Significant Time
When making parenting orders, the court must consider whether equal time with both parents is reasonably practicable and in the child's best interests. Equal time means the child spends approximately the same amount of time with each parent, typically a week-about arrangement or a 5/5/2/2 pattern. For equal time to be ordered, the court must be satisfied that it is reasonably practicable, considering factors such as the distance between the parents' homes, the parents' capacity to implement the arrangement, the child's age and developmental needs, and the parents' ability to communicate and cooperate. If equal time is not appropriate, the court must consider whether substantial and significant time is in the child's best interests and reasonably practicable. Substantial and significant time means time that includes weekends and holidays as well as weekdays, allowing the parent to be involved in the child's daily routine and special occasions. This can include alternate weekends from Friday to Monday, half of school holidays, special days like birthdays and Father's Day or Mother's Day, and time on other special occasions. The key distinction is that substantial and significant time goes beyond simple alternate weekend arrangements.
Parenting & Children's Matters FAQs (Queensland Law)
How does the court decide what parenting arrangement is best in Queensland?
At our firm, the court's paramount consideration is the best interests of the child. The Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) sets out primary considerations including the benefit of a meaningful relationship with both parents and the need to protect the child from harm. Additional factors include the child's views (considering their age and maturity), the relationship with each parent, each parent's capacity to provide for the child's needs, the practical difficulty of the child spending time with each parent, and any family violence considerations. The court must consider equal shared parental responsibility as a starting point, then determine whether equal time or substantial and significant time is appropriate.
Can grandparents apply for parenting orders in Queensland?
Yes, grandparents and other relatives can apply for parenting orders under the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth). Our team helps families with parenting applications. While there is no automatic right for grandparents to spend time with their grandchildren, the court can make orders if it is in the child’s best interests. Grandparents may need to seek leave (permission) from the court to apply if they are not a party to existing parenting proceedings. The court considers the nature of the child’s relationship with the grandparent and whether the proposed arrangements are in the child’s best interests. In Queensland, extended family relationships are often recognised as important for a child’s cultural and emotional development.
What happens if one parent wants to relocate with the child in Queensland?
Relocation disputes can be complex and require careful planning. Our team helps parents navigate relocation applications. Relocation disputes arise when one parent wants to move with the child, either within Queensland or interstate. The parent proposing the move must satisfy the court that the relocation is in the child's best interests. The court considers the reasons for the proposed move, the impact on the child's relationship with the other parent, and whether alternative arrangements can maintain that relationship. A move from Brisbane to Cairns or from the Gold Coast to a regional area requires careful planning. The court may order a parenting plan or consent orders that provide for increased time during school holidays and regular video or telephone communication to maintain the child's relationship with the non-relocating parent.
Do I need to go to mediation before applying for parenting orders in Queensland?
Yes. The Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia generally requires parties to attend a conciliation conference before a property settlement hearing. This is a without prejudice meeting designed to narrow the issues in dispute and explore settlement options. Our team represents clients at FCFCOA conciliation conferences and prepares comprehensive settlement proposals. If the matter does not resolve at the conference, it will proceed to a final hearing before a judge.
Can parenting orders be changed after they are made in Queensland?
Yes, parenting orders can be changed if there has been a significant change in circumstances since the original orders were made. Our team helps parents apply to vary parenting orders through the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia. The court will consider whether the change is in the best interests of the child. Examples of significant changes include a parent relocating, a change in the child’s needs, or concerns about the child’s safety.
Parenting & Children's Matters Services
- Parenting consent orders drafting and filing
- Parenting plans for informal agreements
- Equal shared parental responsibility advice
- Equal time and substantial and significant time arrangements
- Relocation and interstate parenting disputes
- International parenting disputes and Hague Convention matters
- Family dispute resolution and mediation
- Independent children's lawyer appointments
- Child safety and risk assessment issues
- Grandparent and relatives' time with children
- Parenting orders for special needs children
- Urgent parenting orders and recovery orders
Last updated: July 2026
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